
Some of you might wonder why I write this blog. Some of you might wish I would stop (so don’t read my damned blog, ok?) Most who do visit, seemingly enjoy what I write. Others, only visit to get the free pattern (I find you irritating….at least read what I write from time to time! Don’t think I don’t know, the stat meters tell me a lot!!)
Some of you write your own blogs, and you have your reasons for writing them that are many and varied. There are many blogs that serve as a personal showcase of beadwork for the writer. It is their own personal bragging page. Some bloggers write because everyone else does. Others might use their blog as a springboard to their own website to advertise their products
All of these reasons are great reasons to write a blog. Everyone who writes one, I am sure enjoys what they do. While I am fairly new to blogging, (unless you want to count The Cracked Bead on www.beadedbear.com as kind of a blog), I am not new to writing, but who cares about THAT history!!??
While the reasons that people create blogs might be an interesting study on ego, and the human psyche that would cause someone to share personal happenings to the farthest reaches of the internet, it is not what intrigues me.
What I want to know, is why do you read a blog? What is it that brings you to my blog, or to your favorite blogs? What grabs your attention? Is it pretty pictures? Do you then just look at the photos and not read the text? Are you one of many that cause a spike in my “readership” on Mondays and Tuesdays, and only visit to download the Mystery Pattern? Do you read my writing because you are only “nosey”? Or do you read because you truly get some form of enjoyment of the “Nonsense” I write?
I ask only because I am wondering which direction to take. Should I become more “Artsy” and “Serious”, discussing the finer points of peyote done under the full moon versus brick stitch done under the new moon? Should I only talk about the serious business aspects of selling, and how to make a living beading, designing, and writing and the woes of taxation on a cottage industry?
Perhaps the current phase of the moon, or the glass of wine (more likely) I had at dinner is making me be a tad more introspective than usual. My reasons for writing a blog (which started with The Cracked Bead) was to be honest about various aspects of being in the bead business, sometimes brutally so, even at times self deprecating if it gets a point across. At the risk of sounding egotistical, I have plenty of experiences. It comes with 25 years of being a beader and being very serious about my work. Don't you think there is a lot that can be learned, even from an old curmudgeon like me?
But in being serious, there is lots of room for humor. It is my favorite method of telling any story, because I think humor gets the point across much better than thumping one’s grey matter with a didactic treatise.
I ask you, my dear readers, what brings you here, what can I do to improve on what I do to make this more fun, and more interesting, and perhaps even more valuable to you?
Then again….maybe I should just “carry on” and not worry about who, if any one really pays attention to what I write. Blogging, like my beadwork must first and foremost satisfy me. If I bead, or blog just to become "popular" or "famous" or just to "please everyone" then haven't I really lost the soul of what I set out to do in the first place?
Hmmmm…..maybe I should drag out some of my really personal and embarrassing stories to see if anyone is really paying attention!!! ;)
the Bra post was pretty freakin hillarious! Just keep doing what you're doing... it's all good fun.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I appreciate the encouragement. :)
ReplyDeleteI like your blog just how it is. It is a fun spot in my day. It is your blog do it your way. You can never please everybody. Karen
ReplyDeleteI agree with the above and I agree with you. If you can't say whatever you please in your own blog, when can you?
ReplyDeleteI read your blog (and I am new to anyone's blog) because I find it entertaining. I tend to appreciate those folks who demonstrate a slightly left-sided version of the world and are willing to call a spade a spade. I really enjoyed "The Cracked Bead" for the same reason. I am very interested in what you say about beading. I am trying to establish myself as a beader as well. "Course, it's gonna take me a helluva long time to come up to your speed but I am going to start slow and build slowly. Right now am doing for family and friends but looking forward to starting a small business. I am interested in your patterns because I find them wonderful. I have ordered several from Bead-Patterns.com and have enjoyed them all. Haven't tried any of the freebies here yet but may in time (right now, Christmas gifts are screaming at me - gotta large family).
Again, I find your style of writing entertaining. I remember my mom was always dismayed because little me always said precisely what she thought. Ladylike behavior be damned. Someone has to speak the truth. Everyone else is operating on about 1/16 of an inch of topsoil and that scares me. Don't people think any more. Or do they just "keep spinning the wheel?" Well, I think someone needs to throw a monkey wrench into the machinery and get the cogs stopped, at least temporarily. So, Sig, keep on truckin' and rattle their cages. Everyone needs a venue where they can voice their opinion, especially if it is not "the general consensus" (or is the phrase I am looking for "politically correct?") Keep on writing and I will keep on reading to see what funnies you have now. And tell Barney and Norm to try and be good boys, as much as they are able. I realize it is hard for them sometimes but we all have to try a little (even me!). Just keep doin' what you are doin' and enjoy yourself!
Hi Sig,
ReplyDeleteI started reading your blog from the start, because I enjoyed the Cracked Bead so much. I have to agree with the other comments. I think you should keep writing in your own style just as you have been. I do not blog or read any others as much as I visit yours. Your sense of humor is wonderful and I think it takes a lot of guts to "put it out there" the way you do.
Cheryl, Carol and Karen,
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for the kind words! :) So glad you enjoy my writing. I will forge forward and ignore those who think I am being too flipant...hey maybe I should just flip them the old finger.... :)
Sig
Sig,
ReplyDeleteI love your wit! Your blog is the only one I actually read. I get directed to other blogs but only for the eye candy and patterns for sale that I might be interested in. No others are like yours! Love your insight, stories, adventures in beading, killing flies, etc, etc, and so on.
Keep up what you're doing, you do what you do cause you do what you do! Love it.
I'm a fan and very satified customer.
Dear Sig,
ReplyDeleteI was disappointed to find you live in California, especially after the post about the tea you gave the embroidery ladies. I would love to meet some embroidery ladies, and oh, how I wish you lived around the corner from me here on Kauai. We'd be making lilikoi-glazed scones together and beading like mad.
I just read your blog for the first time tonight, maybe from surfing off Beadlust or The Lone Beader's blogs, which I read regularly. I've read several pages back on your blog because I enjoy your sense of humor and good writing is always a pleasure to spend some time with.
To thine own self be true and so forth... don't change yourself for a phantom.
Thanks!
p.s. Yes, bring on the embarassing personal stories!
ReplyDeletePegnard,
ReplyDeleteI am thrilled that you found me! I hope you will stop by and visit often!
If you can't come to me...then perhaps I can come to you!! I am always looking for a reason to travel!!
I should try to teach more...maybe even apply at some of the BIG shows....or have some local bead stores have me come!!
As for embarassing stories, I have plenty of them. One is really bad...I keep debating if I should tell it or not....it is rather personal...but it is VERY funny (now that it is over....)